Relationship & Sexuality Coach
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Have a relationship question you keep circling?
I’m Courtney Boyer, M.Ed., M.S., a relationship and sexuality coach, author of Opened, and co-creator of The MonoPoly Couple.
I help people untangle desire, boundaries, intimacy, non-monogamy, purity culture, and the question beneath so many relationship questions: What is actually true for me?
Send me one clear question with the context I need. I’ll offer an honest, nuanced perspective—without shame, rigid rules, or pretending there’s only one “right” way to build a relationship.
You can ask me about:
• Mono-poly and non-monogamous relationships
• Desire, intimacy and mismatched needs
• Boundaries and difficult conversations
• Jealousy, insecurity and self-trust
• Purity culture and sexual shame
• Whether you’re asking for more, or abandoning yourself
Please remove identifying information from any screenshots you send. Please send one complete question rather than several back-to-back messages. Each separate message may be charged when I reply.
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Send text, voice, or video messages, or start a video call with Courtney Boyer, M.Ed., M.S..
Talk with Courtney Boyer, M.Ed., M.S.
They can reply, pick up, or call you back. Chat back and forth like a normal phone.
We’ll notify you every time they reply.
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Only pay per message if you get a reply within 2 days.
For video calls, pay per minute only if your call is connected.